Why does Abi not want to go back to Nigeria?


I am now wondering why Abi does not want to go back to Nigeria and be with her sick husband and children. She is saying she wants to say goodbye properly to Senzo but I think there is something more to this. And why is Dlomo forcing her to leave the country? Clearly there is something Dlomo does not want Abi to tell Senzo, but what could it be?

I may have thought that Abi is Senzo’s mother but Abi has never hinted of the possibility of this as she insists she is Senzo’s aunt. I am confused now. Any thoughts guys?

156 thoughts on “Why does Abi not want to go back to Nigeria?

  1. you can see that Abi is hurts inside but for sure she will tell Senzo that one thing that Sibusiso don’t want her to tell him

  2. Yes Khocy, there’s more to this whole Senzo-Sibusiso-Dolly thing & that Nigerian better spit it out before Ngamla does something to her,,,you know she disapper mysteriously, Ngamla has boys in town who could do it fast & we dont want her dying before telling us the secret!
    And was that a shack or what? I thought Sbu gave her a huge cheque

  3. Maqz thats what has been playing at the back of my mind but I dismissed it coz I couldnt get how it could be possible, but you never know with gens. Heish but Sbuda is gonna get introuble with makhumalo, why cant he just tell her about Abimbola?

  4. If Abi was Senzo’s mum she should have said something when she wa with Sibu,coz there is nothing to hide if it is only the two of them…I dont know guys, but thats my opinion.

  5. I thought that Sibu would ask Abi when Senzo gave her the bracelet, but he wasnt concerned that much.He was too angry to realise that when they visited Abi with Senzo, he was the guard and didnt give them the chance to talk privately so l think he should have realised that Senzo came to see Abi after their visit.

  6. Abi had a thing with Sbu and she fell pregnant and she did not tell anyone except Sbu about it and while Dolly was also pregnant and yes dolly’s baby died and she blamed Sbusizo for her child’s death and when Abi went to Nigeria she left the child in Busi’s care and that’s where Busi gave him up for adoption.
    That year 3 ladies where pregnant.
    Busi – who had an abortion
    Dolly – gave birth and the child died
    Abi – gave birth and give the child away.
    Does it make sense now gen blogs

  7. im trying hard to erase this thought of senzo being Abi’s child but eish it keeps coming back and the way Abi says he is my nephew it dont match i think i have to wait and see

  8. Damn guys. It’s so simple. SIBUSISO LOVES SENZO SO MUCH. SIBUSISO HAS LIED TO SENZO THAT DOLLY TRIED TO KEEP HIM AWAY FROM THE CHILD WHEN HE FOUND OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT. SO, HE HAS MADE SENZO HATE DOLLY (HIS MOTHER), FROM KEEPING AWAY HIS FATHER. IMAGINE NOW, SENZO FINDS OUT THE TRUTH: THAT HIS FATHER NEVER WANTED HIM?! IF SIBUSISO HAD WANTED HIM, HE WOULD HAVE HAD A FATHER FROM THE START, AND WHEN DOLLY LEARNED SHE WAS DYING, WOULDN’T HAVE HAD TO GIVE SENZO TO BUSI TO GIVE TO SIBUSISO, AND BUSI WOULDN’T HAVE KEPT HIM FROM SIBUSISO, AND LATER GIVEN HIM AWAY WHEN JACK THOUGHT SENZO WAS HIS SON (WITH BUSI!) DAMN! THESE GEN WRITERS ARE HOT!

  9. I am with you on that One Oliv, dont think Abi is Senzo’s mum.. Jst think may be Sbu denied that Dolly was pregnant his child when she was still preg.. U know guyz!

  10. Dee:

    What we know:

    1. Dolly was pregnant with Senzo. She told Ngamla. Ngamla didn’t want the child. Dolly then hung herself. Ngamla asked where the child was, from her sister (Abi), and Abi lied that child had died in Infaplus, and that’s why Abi hung herself. With me so far? (To be continued…)

  11. Meanwhile:

    2. Busi was in love with Jack, and got pregnant. Ngamla told her to abort the child, so she could marry the other guy, so they could get money for the weapons for the struggle. She aborted the child, hated Ngamla for it.

  12. u know guys i have a feeling sebusiso dont want Abi to tell senzo that he wanted Dolly to do abotion not knowing that Abi is Zenso’s mother there is still more suprises for sibusiso

  13. Then:

    3. Dolly found out she had lukemia, gave the child to Busi to give to Sibusiso, because he was roaming Africa, on the struggle, didn’t know where he was. Then she hung herself. Busi convinced Abi to lie that the child had died in the Infaplus scandal, probably paid for her silence, so that she could keep the child herself. (Abi probably hated herself, felt guilty all these years, that’s why she wants to do right by Senzo now). Busi took the child, called it her own, wrote all those things about “her child” in the diary, calling herself Senzo’s mom. Then Jack probably find out that she’d been pregnant (with the aborted child), and was convinced Senzo was his. Then she gave him up for adoption, feeling eh would be safer… That’s why, when Senzo started looking for his mom, he traced it back to “Busi Dlomo”…

  14. she clearly wants senzo to know the honest truth about why he ended in an adopted family…why can sbu let the poor woman atleast say goodbye to the boy?

  15. 4. Now… Ngamla and Senzo find out together that they are father and son. TOGETHER they are clueless, and TOGETHER they decided to find Dolly’s sister, to get answers they BOTH don’t have. But before Ngamla and Senzo hear the story (which Ngamla doesn’t know either!), he tells Abi to leave out one thing, and what would be the one thing that Abi would know? That Ngamla turned his back on Dolly while she was pregnant. Ngamla doesn’t want Senzo to know that it was his fault all this happened. If he had done his duty, and been a father, he would have been around when Dolly died. Dolly wouldn’t have given baby to Busi, Busi wouldn’t have given him up for adoption, Senzo would have had a family. Ngamla told Senzo that DOLLY refused to let Ngamla be a part of the child’s life. At the mooment, Senzo thinks his mother is to blame. He doesn’t want Senzo hating him, now that he’s found them. That’s the one thing he doesn’t want Abi to tell him.

  16. Sibusiso is just feeling insecure about Abi’s being still in SA,coz he feels that the more Abi is in the country, the more chances she will see Senzo and the more Senzo will know everything including what Sibu insisted Abi musnt tell Senzo.

  17. I think Abi is senzo’s mother..Abi got pregnant nd the sister Dolly too… sbu’s is the dad to Dolly’s kid whom he died…But Abi got pregnant with Senzo nd left him with Busi saying its Sbu’s child wich Sbu denied.But now Sbu wants to act like the good dad that he wasnt al this year…goes to show that Senzo is Sbu and Abimbolo Son.Period.

  18. I think you are talking Brudda. I think what really happened is Dlomo dont want Senzo to hate him. And Abi knows everything and if Abi tells Senzo then he will hate Dlomo and Dlomo dont want that. Abi is not the mother but she knows how Dlomo treated Dolly and Busi. Bravo Brudda

  19. abi is senzo ‘s mother, she was really hurting last night..i think aby is dolly, they just made up the story that abi is dolly ‘sister.

  20. i think we gonna crack our heads for nothing, lets just wait and see, Abi is going to reveal it soon. And the way Senzo and Sbuda are tight its gonna crack soon when Abi decides to tell,,,we all know Mfundi, he doesnt wanna see hapinness! Did you see how Pali and SK kissed yesterday? A fisrt indeed, why wait till its late to be so passionate? Pali took Sam for granted all along and now she’s in trouble she wants to chow-chow the poor guy!

  21. We are waiting for disaster guys,Makhumal may know soon that Sibu has been going to see Abi behind her back.I think Senzo will visit Abi again and then Abi will tell Senzo the secret.From there Senzo will freak out and confront Sibusiso about that and the concerned wife will see the tension btwn the two, then Dlomo will have no way out but to tell the truth.

  22. some thing does not happen in real life, i was shocked when magogo pali was trying to convince her father to come to joburg so that he can b arrested.

  23. does palesa knows that when the father got arrested she is going with him or she thinks they will leave her no ways

  24. I think on tv its possible guys, I was watching this movie the other day and the daughter did exactly like Palesa, she connived with the police to get his father arrested, only the man was too clever tha Mr Ndou. And I also think it can happen in real life if say the police tell you its the best way out for both you and your father/relative.

  25. pale is stupid, she is going to b arrested as well, officer phokane told her that she might get a deal bt we all know that the police always say that when they want info.

  26. I think Abi is tired of a sick hubby.she want to stay with a healthy powefull Sbusiso n continue where they ended LOL…..

  27. heeeeee Khocy, how can u say that, when u getting married u make vows. in health and in sickness. so how can she run away from a sick husby.

  28. i dont understand why kopano returned the money to dini,she should have taken the money and run.

  29. guys do u think paul will go to cape town, he is suspicious after kopano told him that kenny liked the flowers hense the flowers where returned to the florists

  30. Was Abi still at the three towers last night?
    I don’t think so and Ntate Mfundi please let other families be happy asseblief and as fo palesa do you think she told Sam

  31. paul will definetly go to capetown and lets hope when kenny move from siqalo he will go to that hospital in capetown

  32. i hate it when it when he feels better n try to walk alone without the help of the others then fall n start to be worse again

  33. I am going out for lunch
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    THIS BLOG IS MXAAAAA WHEN THEY LOCKED ME OUT OF TVSA I WAS SO WORRIED I NEVER THOUGHT I WILL FIND SOMETHING THIS GOOD I LOVE IT EVERYDAY

  34. where is babmkhulu JB..now that senzo and daddy r bonding they 4get all about JB. myb he went back to polokwane

  35. Dee u know im addicted to this blog i come to the office everyday just for this blog nothing else, imagine 2 day is raining and cold but still i came

  36. If u working for private sector u need to try hard, bt if u working for government dont worry jst keep on bloging the whole day.

  37. I’m with u Dee.Bcos Abi did’nt even try to look 4 her nephew that means she did’nt care,n now she’s all caring woryng n hurting.OOh pls Abi drop the act

  38. Dee dont 4get that u r using the company resources to blog. if they fire u, u wont b bloging anymore so work comes first my dear

  39. Hey Robert Monyamane.Whatz up with ur full name n surname.we use shortcutz.Learn from us.LOL………

  40. Da problem with this blog it’s like u can start it in da morning bcos if u satart in the middle of the day sumtymz u gt lost

  41. ya its true bt we must do our work as well,or else we will end up joining khapela and the homeless.

  42. I dont want kenny to get better,and i want kethiwe to do the surgry,and palesa to stop screts iam tired of them,i want to see sam happy,one way or another,and ajax is starting to get to my nerves,and paul is boring me running after dineo.thats all ppl.or i will start rating genarations like bo the bold le bo passions,useless and boring. Gosi.GABS,BOTS

  43. OH i forgot one more thing.that sharon lady,please can the crue try dress her properly,lastnight she was a mess,you cant wear that at the office,even if its a magazine or music company,they are just unproffesional outfits,i mean all of them so far.

  44. Ohhhh!! was tha necessary!!! ignore ppl like her with that sort of attitude… but goin there is a HELLL NOOO!!! THATS FOR ME. DONT KNOW IF ITS WELCOME IN HERE>>.

  45. Guys we are family…..there is need to respect each other’s comment regardless of how you feel about that.Cant you guys say something politely..oh no…guys you are letting me down.

  46. Abi is up to something now……she will definitely tell Senzo the truth now……..and the fact that she is still in the country doesnt go down well with the secretive Mr S.

  47. i thought Abi will come clean yesterday, she better be fast and tell senzo the truth so that she can be free and go back to her sick husband or even the story of sick husband was made up ijooooo

  48. i also thought she’ll come clean but hey she is chickening.. it must be heavy on her shoulders.. i guess she’ll tell the boy when she is ready

  49. l think she will break the news just before she leaves the country, otherwise if she is here after telling Senzo the secret…she will be in trouble with Sibu.

  50. long tym ma blogers sbusiso is bing hard on poor Abi BT I THINK Abi should tell u senzo what ever sbusiso is hidding

  51. if Abi keeps checkning she will end up go without telling senzo the truth and Dlomo will keep on threatning her

  52. or Abi should tell senzo with an sms, and she flee the country because its like she cant tell him face to face

  53. Maqz i dont know ,,but if Abi sends an sms and then flee..at the end of the day Sibu can deny everything since Abi will not be there to defend herself and on the other hand if she tells Senzo and is still in the country then she will be in danger.

  54. i hv been trying to figure out how she should tell her but i cant get, imagine sbu knows where she is now and she cant tell senzo sbu is threatning her eish its too hard for Abi…she has to come clean once and for all, a thembe sbete

  55. I feel sorry for Abi,,,she is not allowed to speak her heart out…Sibu is not being fair to many people in the soapie.He is unfair to Senzo,Dave,Abi and Ntombi too.

  56. brudda is quite correct indeed, it kinda make sense i must say although i’m not so sure myself…………….Brudda is not only a fat chancer but a “Man”………………jokes man, u jst knw how to play around words uhmm?!!!!!

  57. Ya Sammy, Brudda gave us a task but not even one person was able to give him answers.Everyone complained about being insulted and ignored the task given to us.

  58. u ppl who a not pissed off by Brudda’s insults u couldve been answered him nna i cant, i had enough

  59. No Maqz, as you know that our dear Chrissie is always sleeping….we wont get the chance to see her unless we go to her bedroom..aaaaaaaaaaa I miss Bamkhul’Ujabulani so much and if l had hsi phone number l would have phoned him and told him the news coz it seems as if Senzo and his father have forgotten that he is their “elder”

  60. No Maqz Sisy,am apologising on behalf of Brudda,please find a space in your heart to forgive Sister.Lead, with one answer dear and l will give the second one.

  61. They were just hiding a silly thing, and if Senzo had known this from the very first time he would have long forgiven his father by now.Am glad Abi said it out but twas not a big deal anyway.Now Abi has to get moving before he is in big trouble.

  62. HEISH! at last, poor Senzo. That’s why Mr S wanted to give him evry cent he have, he has not been there for the guy

  63. But twas his fault not to be there for Senzo.Senzo has every reason and right to hate him,,,,he has been so useless inhis life and now he is pretending to be a good father.Let Senzo hate him for some time and knock some sense into his big head.

  64. Iyhoo we’ve been cracking our hesds abt the secret we thouight it’s was a big thing but now.Whats a secrets Lol….

  65. olivia its his fault but he told us that he used to be bad back then now he is a cahnged person, his only problem is keeping stupids secrets he could hv told senzo the truth,

  66. But he pretended that he didnt know anything about the child and wanted us to blame Dolly for hiding the baby from him yet he is the one to blame.

  67. But guyz it’s was hard to tell Senzo the truth because the first time he saw Senzo,He pretended as if he never knew he has a son

  68. Now that he is a changed person he should have said the truth from the word go and did not threaten Abi and make her lie about the whole thing.Now we dont see the changed part of him much, since he is still full of lies, threatening and secrets

  69. i do’nt understand,, these secret is the same words Sibusiso used on Busi, by the time we thought Senzo was her son, shuu” sometimes Mfundi o a itebala!

  70. I understand your point Khocy, at first twa hard to tell the truth but with the intervention of Abi should have relieved him a bit and let Abi tell the truth once and for all but he went up to an extent of threatening Abi and forcing her to lie,,,,,ridiculous

  71. UAbi is boring, i think she shuld go back to Nigeria and try her luck on those Africa magic movies and im sure dat with the kind experience she got from Generation and millions( zim dollar), she can even be a producer or a director.

  72. Phindile are we watching the same generations gal…..why are you still talking about Abi,,,,

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