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I was livid last night when I was watching Our Soapie! I know Dumisani is a bastard but what he did last night to Khethiwe was just unacceptable! How can you honestly lay your hands on a woman and then to top it off he goes ahead chokes her until she could not breathe! Dumisani then forced Khethiwe to say that she is sorry before he let go of her.
And then in the evening when the two of them are home Dumisani has the nerve to tell Khethiwe that their ‘fight’ was all Khethiwe’s faulty and that she should not have upset him in the first place. And all of this just because Khethiwe spent the night with a friend and not Dumisani.
What baffles me is the fact that Khethiwe herself still goes back and stays with this guys. I know they say love is blind but Khethi.. wake up!!! Dumisani has hurt you far too many times but you still want to go back to him. Have you forgotten about the bandages you wore for months all because of Dumisani?
But then on the other hand, they are people who believe that Khethiwe deserved what she got yesterday! The writing has been on the wall for a very long time that Khethiwe should not be with Dumisani as he is very abusive and is just not the right guy for him… or any other woman for that matter. So maybe in her being hit, she will wake up and leave Dumisani!
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First let me start by saying ,,yooooo Ron thats a powerful statement…now let me read!!
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Ok,, I cant say I support what Dumisani has done or anything ,,but to be honest ,,Its happening in all hose holds,,, ahhhahh ,,wrong yes but is happening,,Happy blogging y’all Thanx Ron
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thanx Ronnie….shuuuu Kheti wake up, its not love its being stupid how can u let other people abuse u.
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Morning all, i hope we’ll have many comments today, i was hurt and angry at da same tym lst nite abt khethi and owl eyes dumisanie
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who is Ronnie
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Guys we are all at some point victims of some sort of abuse,,, aren’t we???
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I ment Ron…lol TBoss…but its wht all women do …they allow thes plastics to abuse them, mna wont even tolerate a verbal abuse…..its time to wake up woman..
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but do you women want us men to take the verbal ,,emotional abuse ??? for which theres no remedy
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absolutely thulie khethi must catch a wake up dis is not luv and thanks Ronnie 4da post
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bathong,, who is Ronnie,,awu,,eish
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but what about the emotional torture that women give men ,,what are we suppose to do with that?? tell me tuu Id really like to know
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Tbos there is no sort of abuse anyone mst take…i also hate verbal abuse, it will happen but u can tell urself that its something that u will stay with it….eish i dont know wht u say…there one of my neighbours in previous years…she used to shout her husband the whole nite till her husband hit her, on that case i used to say she deserve it…am confused…
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exactly Thulie,,Respect goes both ways,,,and with that I rest my case
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Ronnie is Ron Tbos lol
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Tbos give an example of emotional abuse!
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hahahahahahah gugu,,man stop it Ron is Ron the boss, and Ronnie is T Bos,,, you get it now,,,
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Ok Thulie,,, eeh,, emotional abuse is when someone swear at you,, you know they dont hit you with a stick ,,but they hit you with words,,,,,,
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Words or actions,,, actions such as ,,when its your wife ,,shed rather go to bed with a stoffie even if she knows you want to shag her
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heita BB
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ijerrr le thomile,,, eish
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thnx Ron,,,,,hi evry 1
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Dumi is a DOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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wena Khethi u mst wake up n drink hot choc. since he started doing it he will do it again u jst hv 2 get the hell away frm dat hyena!!
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oh Tboss now i get ur point…lol and u like complaining abt not getting it…hahaha
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i hate it wen i c sum 1 bn abused n they stil say i lv him ey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i lv u my fut man!!
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T Bos Ron is Ronnie n Ronnie is u right honey?
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hahahahah yah but my wife says no even when she is naked and she takes her,,,ooh let me stop
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hahahahah BB is that a trick question of course you are right BB
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lol BB….eish maybe dats real love people will never know…lol
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Sbali Sbali stop it maan
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where are u now peopl….JB has been offered a job to be a waiter at Rubies…Sara crazy inlove…eish dont like her friend .
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hu is here guyz?
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Good morning bloggers eish I must say I am very dissapointed with Khethiwe how could she tolerate such a behaviour she is going on as if she is married with 10 kids
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JB udla uRuby ja kuse Goli la indeed!!!!
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married with ten kids,,,eish lol
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hi Dee,,,,,,,
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JB and Ruby are they,,,,,juwi
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I am here and very angry and whenever I see the headline that says Dumisani is a disgrace to men damn and hell no I think 90% of men are abusive
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but Dee what abot the 101% of women that emotionally abuse women wena,,huh
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Hi BB
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hi Dee even if u married with 10kids there is no way to tollerate such behaviour….and i think 99% are abusive but in different wayz..
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women are very abusive and they dont know it,,, Men are physical and women are emotional,,,, so when you see a man hitting a woman its because he is emotionally abused,, by a woman in most cases
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ke bora ke ditumediso tse tsa kgethollo
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so Tboss u saying Dumisana was rite when he said to Kheti u did this to urself…i was gonner pack my stuff immediately and jst go…
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I still say ,,we all go through abuse,, in 1 way or another each day,,, all of us
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what is the meaning of that TBoss @ 9:46?
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then go,,,Thulie but am telling you ,,you are going to find another abuser ,,there,, go,, go ,,,,
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I cannot comment much on last nights episode coz I didnt watch but I say lets try and find common ground,, no one should abuse the other
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yes TBoss but women getting more and more as compared to man
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m also pissed wth ths Khethi thing Dee
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Woman emotionally abusing other woman
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no Thulie the problem is that with men the abuse is visible unlike with women,,, women may swear at you or not cook for you or not give you your conjugal rights but no one will see that ,,but when you the man fist a woman ,,everybody will see the bleu eye obviously thats why ppl think that men are more abusive kante its the other way round
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i thnk T Bos is ok wth wat Dumi did y-day,,,,,,
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even at the garden of Eden the woman started it,,, man
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Im not Ok with it BB I am just saying that it happens,, joe,, pls do not hear me wrong
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It is absolutely rediculous and abusive.Dumisani is crazy and I think he is begining to loose his mind,he needs a shrink I tell you. Kethiwe should leave him cause I dont see a future for them. This is not love, you dont lay your hand on someone you love and hit her.
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Im off to the gym ,,,brb Ok
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yes sum of us go thru abuse evry day n we cnt do anythng abt it dat hurts most but wen u get dat opportunity 2 get out of dat abuse do it sun
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you do Nonhlanhla,,, believe me you do… even your kids if you want to keep them in tune ,,you should spank them ,,,,a bit
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but still TBoss men are using the power in a very wrong way…i mean its ok we all understand that a man is a head but there are those headless heads…errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr what can i say…lol
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Bloggers I will be back in the next 30 minutes
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exactly Nhlakes!!!!
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exactle BB…why do u stay in something that is hurting ….i mean i would rather be single for life…
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……shem the abuse is all over,, I say find common ground,, and find out why,,,,are you being abused,,,,,, dont run coz its only getting worse
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single for life,,lol,,, nabo gogo bethu ba the njalo,, pls this is a cycle,,it must go on
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T Bos i can help u gim man dnt go we wil gim 2geda,,,lol
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love dnt hurt,,,,,u hurt sum1 n say u love them
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where u going now Dee…come here maan
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Hi guys, am new and love the family… i got so deeply touched ystdy over what that bastsrd did to Kheti…. its a total disgrace
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but people to be honest love hurts but dont abuse….i mean at least dumisani was suppose to act as if he is sorry…i hate that he is convincing Khet to blame herself…..
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I dont think there’s any love left for him after izolo… she shud just go back to her flat and stay with Rethabile…
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Morning Tsholofelo…welcome to the family, feel at home…we love you
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But Tsholofelo u know how girls are believe me Kheti will be convinced that she did that to her self….dammmmmmmmmmm
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and Kheti plz u need to go to the gym…
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Hi guys am back,, from my workout
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hahahahahah Khethi isnt bad looking bathong she has flesh,,,, he banna Hi Tsholofelo
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welcom back Sbali
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thanx Thulieeeeeeeee,,so where were we?
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but Tboss she was looking nice before preggies…and now…shoooooooooo
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and tell me why Kheti is alwayz on dresses…long dresses….she needs to change the style maan
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Ok are we still talking about abuse
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hey Dee u bk
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OH, goodness, is this waht you call life? Dumisane need prayers, seriously
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Tbos I was reading one of your comments and if I understand you correctly you said if a woman does not cook for you thats abuse
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No Ndina Khethiwe needs prayers
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Yeah I am back
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yes Dee
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guyz i think dumisani is manipulative, jeolousy, neediness, selfishness and al those are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship
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brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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lol Dee @ 10:34
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shoooo gugu where u get all those words….hahahaha
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Dumisani lvs khethi very much his problem is dat he stil living in a past relationship, mistrust and past pain
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gugu love does not abuse
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Ja gugu i think u rite yhaazi….
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i feel sick 2day!!!!!!!!!!
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but da past is controlng him Dee dat his problem @ 10:44am
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Thank Thulie…
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Thanx i meant!!
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hi Tsholo welcome home swty,,,,,,hi gugz!
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love doesnt hate abuse kill or do any bad thing but ppl do whats wrong BB why are you sick joe
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ppl that live in the past never grow,,,they are stagnant
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Amen Tbos @ 10:49
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WARNING SIGNS OF ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
1. Does your partner tease you in a hurtful way in private or in public?
2. Does your partner call you names such as “stupid” or “bitch”?
3. Does your partner act jealous of your friends, family, or co-workers?
4. Does your partner get angry about clothes you wear or how you style your hair?
5. Does your partner check-up on you by calling, driving by, or getting someone else to?
6. Has your partner gone places with you or sent someone just to “keep an eye on you”?
7. Does your partner insist on knowing who you talk with on the phone?
8. Does your partner blame you for his problems or his bad mood?
9. Does your partner get angry so easily that you feel like you’re “walking on eggshells”?
10. Does your partner hit walls, drive dangerously, or do other things to scare you?
11. Does your partner often drink or use drugs?
12. Does your partner insist that you drink or use drugs with him?
13. Have you lost friends or no longer see some of your family because of your partner?
14. Does your partner accuse you of being interested in someone else?
15. Does your partner read your mail, go through your purse, or other personal papers?
16. Does your partner keep money from you, keep you in debt, or have “money secrets?”
17. Has your partner kept you from getting a job, or caused you to lose a job?
18. Has your partner sold your car, made you give up your license, or not repaired your car?
19. Does your partner threaten to hurt you, your children, family, friends, or pets?
20. Does your partner force you to have sex when you do not want to?
21. Does your partner force you to have sex in ways that you do not want to?
22. Does your partner threaten to kill you or himself if you leave?
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I wonder who she’s gonna tell first about what “He” did to him…..
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Bloggers please be on the look out for this signs
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but gugu on the other side Dumisani was alwyz like this even on bridget….he has love but also abusive
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And when he forces you to apologise
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She won’t tell Tsholo woman who are in this situation do not say they keep it to themselves
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Dee it looks like ,,they are saying here that we shouldn’t live at all,,I mean what else should we do,,,,,,,,,,,,, not care???
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Dumisani does not have love he only think of himself
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Force to have sex in ways you dont want to uuuh bathong ,,eish,,,, le basadi ba abuse banna tuu,, they call men dogs ,,aggggg Im out
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What are you talking about Tbos
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but some women,, as a sign of concern,, need to know who are talking to on the phone is that soo wrong especially when you love someone,, where did you get this Dee I wanna call them now,, sis
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I am talking about your article here juuuuuwi,,yeses
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Tbos we are not talikng about woman or men only we talking abuse in a relationship
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eish Dee am lazy to read….lol
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It looks like you promote abuse Tbos
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Go through personal papers ,,theres no personal once you are married plus women go through guy’s pockets all the time,, geeeeez
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Thulie if you are in a relationship please read
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Tboss can u stop defending maan
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Butit seems like ,,life is abuse according to this article,, you cant even breath ba tla re its abuse ijo
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Ok I rest my case ,,Dee are you in a relationship or what,,wena Im sure wa mo abusa”
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Tbos I am worried about you I think you have signs of an abusive man
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i say there’s no future in Khethi n Dumi’s relationship
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Thanks God I am not in a relationship because I will not tolerate this sh..it never
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BB I agree with you and Khethi should run like hell and never look back
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no am single and satisfied Dee….guess single for life…. anhe gugu?
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yes Dee dats wat i wnted 2 say but cudnt
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Hi guys heyi 2dai is 2dai evri 1 is blogging guys pls dont abuse woman they ar ur treasure ur flower ur glases i hate a man who lay a hand on a woman ,man comes from woman & ther’s no woman without man we start with wo+man is woman y hurting ur self if feel fire burning in me as i’m writing dis no jokes dis must put 2 a stop no woman must alow dat pls girls i beg u
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Kheti uzohlala u dont understand girlz they alwayz desparate for guyz…why did she take Dumi bck at the first place….couse taking ur ex bck its like taking wht u vomited and put it bck 2 ur mounth…..lol
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guys there’s n ad dat say we shud vote 4 soapies n Gen is one of them do u knw wat is dat al abt?
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hey Khotso how are u! yes tell them..
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dont know BB but its something for certain awards……
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n the bible says woman r like fragile dishes n they need to b handle well so which part of the bible do other men read or they dnt read it anyway
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guyz bt why we as woman do u we have to stay in something that we see its not rite…i mean God created us very intellegent and unique y do we have to settlein for less thingz….wakeup woman..
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Of course thulie@ 11:10am tata masingle tata!
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Hello bathong.
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Hello stacy where hv yu been?
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@ Dee 11:08 you sound exactly like an abusive woman,, emotional abuser ,, ke go tllapela tsona tseo calling me shi..t
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hahahahahah yuwi,, nna an abuser ahahahahahahahahah jooo
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hey Stacy u sarce maan, whats up girl?
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as Gens bloggers we need 2 tyk our R2 n vote 4 Gen guyz wat do u say?
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out 4 lunch
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its hectic 2day 4me here
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ppl im looking 4d new job
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duplicate kanjani heh
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come to Ct gugu
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Dee most of what you have written from 1-20 applies to me.
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guyz jst wana share ths with u,,,,,,,,r u here
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yes am here BB
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Sorry bloggers for dissapearing like that ok fill me in what are we talking about now are we still on abuse
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Stacy run sweety run like hell do not look back if I may ask why are you still in the relationship
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Stacy what do u say girl? someone abusing u?
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Maybe Dee she still love the man….Stacy i know it wont be easy but if u see that he does’nt stop try to find a way to pull out…plzzz sisi for ur own sake…if u still crazy abt him, sit down with him and tell him that u love him but u wont tollerate abuse…
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Stacy what are you still doing with him
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Run stacy run
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hi Stacy hw is u 2day gal?
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Dee try to put urself in Stacy’s shoes plzzzzzzzzz
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There were no posts guys since friday and i was busy with work.
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when u jst say to somone run away…the first thing that comes on her mind is they dont understand the situation…so guyz in order to give someone help try to put urself on their shoez and be honest ..
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Both ways abuse is not right.
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ja Stacy it is not rite and end up affecting ur life….there is a letter that was written by a zulu woman who was married to a tswana husby…can google it on the internat it says “Born to suffer”
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La yaka bo bohle,,, coz you have all experienced some kind of abuse,, period,,, sto lying man
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you people like running neh,, where are y’all running to coz,,, the same will happen,, solve sisi solve,, eish ga le utlwe niks!!!
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u will run and stay single like me…lol
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kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa,,,Thulie,,, be realistic tuuuuuu
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lunch!!!!!!!!!!!!T Bos
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no 14,19 and 20 shooooo stacy@ 12:01 i suggest you leave him sisi i know is not easy but hey he can kill you my friend he dangerous.
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I am TBoss…lol
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Dumi is just a stupid man who does not no hou 2 treat a lady u must be gentle with us & girls u must respect ur men even if ur salari is so high u must respect this guys must be our protector not enemis pls guys ppl like Dumi must liv in a cage so dei will learn 2 liv with human being
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say it again Khotso we women we inted to to disrespect when we have more money than men…but still think men deserve abuse…lol
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hi guyz, this is complicated.
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Ladies you sound as if you say YES to abuse if someone is in an abusive relationship there is no time to put yourself in her shoes all that you got to say is RUN LIKE HELL what if the persn dies while we are still trying to put ourselves in her shoes NO EXCUSES IN ABUSE AND NO WAITING
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So Thulie you are saying that women disrespect up if we don’t have money?
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Nothing is complicated Champ
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Champ i do not understand this woman really the other day I had an argument with someone who thinks a 14 year old is fit enough to be a wife
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yes Champ…its alwayz like that and i think its nature….
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Thulie how much is having money by the way
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Thulie Thulie Thulie
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Thulie I still want to know how much is having money
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Stacy i no wht ur going thruogh but i can’t tell wht 2 do onli u no wht u want eda u fix de problem or live de bastad up 2 u i wil neva sai do dis do dat just do wht u want u r de 1 who is burning & u no how much ur burned riht now do as wise
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its plus or minus R50.000 a month….lol…. wht am trying to emphasies Dee is if ur husby is earning R10 and u earning R50, most of women they feel like they can control and lay rules.
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If you stay stacy you either going to loose your mind ( o tlo hlanya ) or you will be criple for life
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So does that mean they should be abused?????Does that give a man the right to abuse the woman with her hard earned cash???????If one partner is not happy he or she should leave the bastard
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mhhhhhhhhh u rite Dee….but guyz u mst give her the gud advice to step out, when u jst say runaway…maybe she is asking how?
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Thulie no one is going to mess with my life whether he earns more or less money than I am. No one is going to take my car and drive around with girls
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How DUMP THE BASTARDS KLAAR
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No Dee u dont get the point…we were trying to say woman do abuse nabo…so i guess its both side….Abuse mst stop wheather its from which side.
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but Dee admit it when i say sometimes girls let men to take control …i hate it when someone is giving her car to the boy friend…..eish……..
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wena Dee this dump the bastards thing ya gago,, is the reason we have so many prostitutes out there and fatherless children,,, mxcmm
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and the feelingz u have for him Dee?
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Ashu Zuma ,,he is abusing five women daily,,, o reng ka eo,,Dee miss DUMP THE BASTARDS!!!!!
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The woman should just dump the bastards Zuma or no Zuma
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lol@ TBoss dont agree with u
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You know Thulie if you let your man take control its ok but do not let him abuse you
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No child is fatherless
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mxcmm mxcmm mxcmm Dee ,,nou yana,, my kid at school they say make valentines cards and he made only for his mom,,, not dad,, the reason being ,,the teachers dont want to offend children without fathers,,, I mean Im here for my kids but cant get benefits of it because of a woman who was too cheeky to live with a man,, mcxmm
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Khethiwe she’s got everything but she is tolerating this abusive insecure man
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when we grew up my mom was unemplyd for many many years and my father was an alcoholic bt i don’t remember even sngle day cng my father abusing mom physcal or emotional
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I hate Dumi guyz, i felt like screaming last nite. What is wrong with him? poor Khethi… it wont be easy for her cos she is feeling guil for not listening to anyone.
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Amen gugu so i think it is all about man who feel insecure and who feel that they are big guys by abusing woman
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Champ I hate Khethi for still staying in this kak affair
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gugu ma friend u cant compare are handsome fathers with dis generation….man today they sooo like dogz…
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but guyz, my ex use to call me stupid man…don’t you think she was abusing me.
The other day she broke my fone after i spoke to my cousin.. she said that i was cheating on her. Even if i was cheating does she have the rights to break my fone?
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They are dogs and they want to blame woman for their success
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Thank you Champ you are now calling her EX
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life is bad…..
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why were u cheating? couse u abusing her emotional…she had a rite to break tht 4ne…lol
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i was speaking to my cousin not with just anyone… i neve cheat to the woman in my life… insecurities…
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but Guyz let us face a realit now…everybody has his or her own mistakes, jst imagen if a person callz u stupid u dump her, u go to another one that one calls kak, u dump her…the third one calls bastered u dump her….that means there is not future to you. am not saying people mst tolerate abuse but try to sit down with ur paterner tell him or her what u dont like…
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But Champ…woman they dont jst feel insercure in the middle of no where…what made her to feel insecure at first?
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Eish, i just left her that same day.
She even slept me. the worst part she came back and say she was sorry and that it will never happen.
What i am trying to say is, women heat us too.
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Thulie you do not dump on the 1st attempt you will obviusly speak to him and if he continues that’s where you dump the bastards
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Bloggers I need to sort out something I will chart to you second half
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Thulie, i am close to my sisters and cousins.. they are family haven sake..
That woman never wanted me to like anyone. and i did love her you know. but only her abusive way. slaping me, small thing i am stupid, shouting and many more. It took me months to recover.
Khethy can do the same you know.
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lol champ
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am leaving u guyz…..till we meet again…not comming to the office tomoro and thursday….will be doing meetings the whole day…
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I am with you Dee…Maybe Khethy will do so in a second incident.
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I am with you Dee…Maybe Khethy will do so in a second incident.
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my ex (father of my kids) committed suicide because of his jeolousy dat leads him to being abusive then ended his life!!!!
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Auch gugu
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gugu jst be glad that he did’nt kill u sisi…because most people that are jealous they kill the whole family….the bastered that was gonner get married to was already abusing me verbal and more verbal calling me names..because of jelous, if he is trying to call me and i did’nt pick up the fone i will find 17missed call….rhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa am glad did’nt marry him… Thanx God u are sooo wonderful
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and have to explain why did’nt pick up the fone, and he has to call someone else to make sure that am telling the truth….nxaaaaaaaaaaa but guyz it takes guts to comeup of an abusive relationship because it was not easy for me i was thinking all those thing, what people are going to say couse they saw me wearing engagement ring, i have already hired a white wedding dress, i have already told people the wedding date…it was not easy but i can say i thank God couse he was there for me.
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m bck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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welcome bck BB
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actally thulie my parents saved my life especialy my father anyway its over and im happly single now, pls guyz be careful of abusive men ive been there is just dat i dont want to go deep with my story
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jst wana read ur comments
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eish gugu….be glad u single girl…
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welcum bck BB, thulie yu dont anyone explanation as long as yu happy with da desicion dat yu kt
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thnx guyz u hv managed 2 get out of n abusive relationships,,,,,u r very strng ladies i wish u cud help others
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yha i know gugu….but u know people they like thingz they still asking me even today…and they got all the wrong info….bt i dont mind and dont care jst thank God that am out of that nonsense….
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It’s sad that Khethi can’t stand up for herself now. remember when Khaphela proposed she even had a nerve of telling him not to speak to her. But still Dumisani is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!
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i knw of sum1 hu was abused or stil abusing by her hubby but she cant get out of dat relationship bcos she said she lvs him(lv him my fut)n dat she dasnt hv anywhr 2 go hw stupid is dat?
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Oh so you never saw my message coz it awaited moderation Dee lucky you,, see you guys 2morrow,, akere,,,and Dee yu know the drill and gugu your ex loooooooved you ,,very dearly,, women just dont get it
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I don’t know what is wrong with Khethi I use to think she is one of the strongest ladies I always compared her with Ntombi
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byeeeeeeee people….love you all
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n ncina Khethi hs evrythng i dnt knw wat wil make her stay there
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black beauty, thats emotional abuse. that sm1 was told how useless and dumb she is. It wil take her to loose smthing precious to c what’s hpning in hr life
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byee Thulz….lv u 2 swty!!!
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tlogelang Khethiwe tuu she ia a real woman,, Dee stop ignoring me ,,byeeeeee everybodyyyy
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it’s al in da mind dat u worth smting or not. watch the space she’ll be protecting Dumisani frm now on & say a word to any1
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but wat do we expect cos even ur mom can abuse u i mean sum1 hu delivered u into ths world wat abt sum1 hu jst met u matured already he doesnt knw hw u got in2 ths world
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BB i hv a frend hu is in same sitution but bcos he paid lobola she cant get out of dat relationship how stupid? oh ya tbos he looooooooved me
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real woman my fut!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i get depressed wen we kip on wth ths topic u knw cos m also a victim of dat i rather go 4 nw wl cum bck L8A neh
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ciao!!!
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bye tbos
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bye thulie
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c yu l8t BB
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wr r yu Dee
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okay let me tk a brk
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i dont want to tlk to myself
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BB cum bck now
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stl no 1
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My network is giving me problems these days its just too slow and not responding sometimes.
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no no i cant do dis anymore
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