hi n thnx Ron,,,,,,

Morning Ron thanks for the post.

huh,,,Ron,,,,,I wish you could just pop in just to let us Men know ,,,exactly what it is that women want,,, WAHTTTTTT???

I think Senzo should have left Sbu deal with it,,,or did Senzo blog yesterday and see what we thought about him being gay???? tjo ke mehlolo

Senzo told his dad he is not gay hau mara i think he shud hv sticked 2 the truth yazi cos nw its getng worse cos if Sbu finds out dat he lied 2 him its gona b the biggest problm eva

Good morning everyone.

Hi TBos, I wish I knew what women wanted. Maybe if I did know I would not be single!!!

lol,,Ron,,,,Ron theres plenty of gals here man,, how come you are still sinlge

n Sbu was very wrong 2 talk 2 Makhumalo like dat!!!

ok Ron u shud hv said so cos i can i can teach u

hahahahah BB man,, are you taking the Boss now,,,thatha BB

so wat u saying Ron?

i jst need to teach him 1 or 2 abt women/ladies

all we need is a room n car then we will take it frm there

teach me first,,,BB

hahahahaha BB kante,,today!!!!! jooo you are HOTTTT

eish Kheti is in trouble

which other side now Stacy?

the ingredients r as follows:
*Ron
*BB
*car
*house
then we tyk it frm there is dat 2 much Ron?

LoL BB…. your house or mine?

my house n ur car babes

be careful Ron,,this is BB we are talking about once you are IN ” you are hooked…lol eish BB ….

hahahahahah eish I cant stop laughing hahahaha BB man Thatha!!!

it wil start @ my house wen u pick me up to ur car n end @ my house wen u leave

k bck 2 Gen enaf info T Bos is listening we wil tak privately “Boss” babes!

BB what exactly are you talking about,,,,what a Friday,, who is getting paid today,, you BB?

yah Im taking a few tips….mos awu

now guys pls tell me,,, about Senzo is he mad or what,,, I mean geeezzzzz

oh ok thanx Ron… lol BB

Senzo, Dumisani, Sibusiso…all mad…tell me was JB jelous when Ruby laughing to Kenneth?

For how long is he going to keep it a secret?

Why can’t Khetie just leave Dumisani. In our culture we have women tolerating abuse only for the sake of the children. There are no kids here Khetie.

Stacy whats up for lunch today?

Dumisani was onto Khetie again yesterday if i was her i wouldnt wait another second especially knowing we are not married and dont have kids to keep us together i would run and never come back.

eish Ketty is stupid couse she is not happy at all.

ppl cum ths side pls!!

My point exactly RC @ 9.31. I dont have anything planned yet for lunch, any suggestions?

RC its 9:52 and you want lunchhhhhhh…yooo

BB which side now? Are we on the wrong side?

am hungry as we speak

awu,,Stacy you tooo, lunch,,ijerrrrrr man

T Bos. Its called planning ahead. My high school’s motto was: A wise man thinks ahead.

As for Sbu he was just trying to prove a point in front of his uncle why couldnt he just tell to print other invites.

Stacy, if you like traditional dishes be at the Holiday Inn today!

i told u guyz wen ur partner start hitng u he/she wil do it again u saw dat Dumi was doing 2 Khethi

Kheti if she knws wats gud 4 her she mst get the hell away 4rm dat house

so RC i cnt accept gifts 4rm cos T Bos its my bf? Dumi my fut man!!!!!!!

RC arer you gopingto give Stacy some traditional Zim dish,,hahahahah that sounds,,hahahahah yummy!!!!

Hi guys, I think thats what Kethiwe wants, cos I belive sometimes we women let ourselves down when it comes to man.
And as for Senzo, I like what he did.

people are just eating each other neh,,,hahahahahahah jo

In life I have realised and I thought women who are beaten by their husbands are those who can’t keep their mouths shut but I don’t think Khetie is one of them.

Guys, who is Robin Chicco, I know somebody by that name………
Hey Tbos!

but Ndina what Senzo did was being a coward mos ,,,he should have just told daddy dearest that he is gay and got over and done with it,,now what is Sbu going to think the next time he(senzo) decides to be honest ,,he is prolonging the inevitable

Yes BB, its romantically dangerous

Ndina I am Robin Chicco unless you know somebody who calls himself by the same name and from where?

I think that will be even better T-boz, it will serve Sbu very well. He will realise that his son has been taking him for a ride for such a very long time. Ngamla thinks he is wiser than everybody…….. This one will hit him harder than the word hard itself…….

anybody home

Lol RChicco………….. the RC that I know is from Whk……… u from SA mos, aren’t u?

RC @ 9.52 I DONT AGREE WITH YOU. Do you know that some man take advantage of how down to earth a person is?

Ndina I am from Zim

But no men will hit a quite person only unless he is insane. Silence is golden Stacy. Mark my words when you get married

molweni, dumelang, re teng le kae

whch side r u guyz?

Mexican is at it again.

Hi,,Maqz….

Stacy I dont agree with you,,,most women take advantage about how down to earth we guys are

guyz i just passedby to say hi

no RC @ 9:54,,,,,,,,i msnt hv frnds bcos my man said so?my fut man!!!!!!!!

hahahaha RC we have a lot of insane ppl out there,,,freak the whole world seems,,,Ok

molo MexicanB!!!!!

Im a quite person but i get interrogated and made to accept being wrong when im not like what is being done to Khetie so RC sometimes i wish i was a diffirent person altogether so that i could stand my ground.

eh,,eh man Maqz,,c’mon

BB everyone should have friends especially if they influence you positively in your life.

And T Bos it is only those many insane people who do so.

Taura RC eish i forgot …………

Stacy a guy ,,or even ppl who dont respect that,,,your personality are INSANE

brb,,, n men take n advantage of hw swt we r n hw insecure women can feel eish mara nani bafazi dnt shw them dat udesperate ai!!!

RC ,,are you some sort of Doctor,,or a very learned some one,, Im impressed by all your answers ,,no offence guyss

eish talking about khethi Stacy……..tell me guyz whats wrong with this dumi……thats abuse

Its the nature of women to be sweet ,,but these days women have become ROCKs,,, hear me ROCKS

Tbos have you read Nompumelelo’s story born to suffer? If you have’nt take a look at it then tell me what you think after that for your statement @ 10.18.

T howzit sthandwa

TBos still defending man even today?

i dont believe this Mexxxxxxxxxxicccccccccccan….how are you?

Stacy there s awhole mix up,,,,,here and I think we human beings have chosen our own partners and not invited God,, coz we all cry the same tears

auuu T why calling us rocks mannn…….

Stacy it is during the interrogation that you should learn to be silent and save yourself a lot of brushes. You don’t lose anything. The point is do what you have to do to escape domestic violence

no mann women of today are soo concentrating on defending themselves ,,they are no longer delicate things they have become almost ,,men” in a way..geeeeez MATLAPA a bothata thata

im gud Thulie and how a u and my little one

T Bos @10:27 Am not a Dr. and I don’t know if I can call myself a learned person

but then tell me ppl ,,what causes this domestic violence ,,what can end it?? Solutions pls

Know what BB my man also doesnt want me to have friends yet he has many himself. Just 2 days ago he was going through my mobile asking me about my contacts and wanting to delete them i mean is that fair.

T bathong whatz wrong do u want to tel me that khethi is doing anything wrong as of now……………pliz T

but Stacy my dear why a u stil with that man…………….

well owl eyes is very wrong he is being a bastard and an idiot,,, I absolutely do not support abuse /violence,, of any kind I just wish we could all talk things through you know…

wa mo rata…….Love is something else,,,

Stacy pls ask that guy to call me,, he needs counseling,,,,,, I mean why is he threatened by you so much,,,

Shoo Mexican i missed you….and am soo happy u back….i am fine and the little one is ok and growing….hope u enjoyed ur looooooong holiday

T Bos causes of domestic violence are numerous but to me one of the most central issue in domestic violence is lack of communication-in its various forms. Lets use this recent Khetie/Dumi incident. If Dumi had not ignored Khetie’s calls he could have heard her story and allowed her to stay over or he could have offered to come and pick her up. He blocked communication which was vital in this case.

ecxellent RC ,,youve completed the whole test,,, COMMUNICATION,,, full stop

T Bos I agree with you COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION and COMMUNICATION

RC if i keep quiet he says im ignoring him or dont respect him and worse still whether you keep quiet or not i still get beaten. So what do you say about that?

what can i say

Stacy

most of the guyz who abuse ladys they end up killing them…………

Mexi like what RC said im afraid of what will become of my children and the fear of the unknown.

Stacy when he is at his happiest,,, neh,,, ask him to come sit down with you then,, tell him that ,,you love him and respect him and that you would love to spend your life with him, but the beating takes the passion and love

he is insecure,,, maybe his mother use to abuse him

Stacy it all depends on your approach. If you politely ask for dialogue or even ask for forgiveness when he is still angry and later on when he calms down politely bring your case and give him your side of the story. They say mhinduro nyoro inopodza hasha (soft answer thaws anger-literally)

more especial if the guy is jealous they end up killing

We talk and somtime reach an agreement but it still comes back he is just someone who gets angry for petty issues and forces you to admit you are wrong cause i cant defend myself.

T Bos that’s it! Even shortly after sex when you hold each other, laughing and talking

waitse Stacy i fil 4 u mygal…..the way i am i dont think i can stand for abusive man………….or i just say because im not there i dont know……..nna i like making a point maybe T o raya nna when he says women are rocks nowadays,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

then tell him that he is being a child Stacy he isnt acting like a man,,, put your foot down,, in a respectful manner though,,or ask relatives to talk to him

yah,,,RC and no Maqz,,,, i didnt know that you are also one of the Rocks ,,you sound feminine

i have to taura bathong see u monday

hahahahahhhh T if u know mmakhumalo u know me

bye..Maqz,,happy tauring

Stacy you should also look at the petty issues that makes him angry and every turn. Look at your role in the petty issues and see how best you can avoid them. It looks like it’s you who have a bigger role to play in ending this. Think about other things that makes him insecure and give him assurance

thnx T………..

RC im that type of a person but you know what he says if you apologise ‘you think you can just apologise and get away with it that it doesnt work that way’

yoh,,mmakhumalo,,, o ntshwanna le mpya e hobulang koloyi e tsamayang she is loud cant really stand her

Stacy we are talking to you but you keep talking to RC alone whats your problem,,,,,? agggg

Ok tauring has been officialised!!!

then atsrt Praying ,,you need Jesus in this case ,,your husband is cursed

thats suppose to be Start,,,,,,eish

Stacy sorry to be so blunt but I have to tell you some of the things that make men feel insecure:
1)If he married you when you not not a virgin and he was not the one who defiled you
2) When he proposed to you in the first place when you were still seeing you boyfriend then
3) If he things you are still communicating with your ex
4) If he regularly but accidentally meets you ex at a place you frequent
5)If your ex stays near your hood
6) If you earn more than he earns.
7) If you come from a family which is well off than his
If you have many unmarried friends
9) If you have well to do friends

the examples are many Stacy. If there are one or two similar scenarios to yours there, then your man has failed to accept you as you are or you have failed to give him assurance that you are his forever. In the end OUT is the only way out of this.

Mexi are makhumalo as Ntombi?

Tbos am sorry but i responding to your comments too and thanks for your advice but for me tell him to call you that’s a tricky one another beating will come my way lol.

eish,,RC I dont know what to say

But if its becoming worse Stacy don’t “stay for the kids”. You will be dead by the time you realise your kids want you in one piece anywhere in the world. All the same refer to my post 11:31

About what T Bos?

RC ,,I dont know what to say about your 11:31…..really Stacy has to pray in Faith for her hubby thats if she still thinks the marriage can be saved and if she still loves him,,, eish this guy is a looser,,,,,aowa he’s worse

u rite RC

True T Bos she can even invite him to church. I think Stacy should give me his number so that I “accidentally” call him and then we develop a friendship from there and I try to help him. We meet over drinks, discuss football in Zim, in UK and the World Cup, we talk about politics until we become friends and we get into those hot issues. What do you think guys? Stacy, T bos?

buzy ryt nw i wl taura with u shortly!

BB that’s kind of it. Taura with us later!

Yah that would be nice RC because it seems he has bad influence from his friends or else they do not know about this hidden character of his

hey guys Taura means ,,bye,, not talk pls tuu

Tbos i do pray in faith and go an extra mile of being submissive to him and i just one he he realize. RC @12.09 how do you plan to do that?

I can see taura is dominating im loving it.

Stacy you give me his number and not his name. I call him by “mistake”, you know the sorry wrong number kind of thing. I can be friendly until we become friends. What do you think?

m gna lunch guyz L8A!!!!!!!!!

Finally lunch is here!!!

It looks like everyone is out to lunch.

RC are you alone baby

Yes Dee and I feel so lonely. Are u there?

Where is everybody

I am here sweetypie

You know everytime I see RC i think of Rythm City

Ha ha ha. But please don’t call me Rythm City Dee

Eish am late for lunch taura with you after lunch guys RC meet you at holiday inn.

Stacy you want rice rine dovi today? I was there yesterday I cant afford to be there today unless you want to take me out.

Am back.

yello!

Was about to ask why i didnt see you RC but i,ve just read my answer. So what did you have for lunch?

Hi Sammy,,my halle!!!

Stacy what did you say about my suggestion?

Ha ha ha ha. See me? Would you know me is you see me Stacy? Friday I dont go for lunch coz I finish work early

Im sooo bored,,, RC why dont you date Stacy,,, you sound like a good guy

are you guys at your jobs,,or at home,,,,, ?

Hie Sammy.

Tbos what are you on about?

T Bos I don’t sound like a good but I am a good guy. No bragging! I am in at work at the moment

RC whats your email add?

awu,,Stacy,,, dont you see what a nice guy Robin is,, here your chance ,,,,tell me are you married to your hubby and if so what are your plans ,,have you been to a counselor or something????

Stacy T Bos is saying you deserve better in life

Am at work Tbos.

Stacy I can give you my number

No Tbos havent been to counselor.

yah Stacy I have seen you and I tghink you do deserve better in life,,not that looks are everything but ,,,,

are you married to this man,,,,,

I hope this man,,is not Mugabe!

Ha ha ha ha. T Bos Mugabe doesnt have the power to beat up his wife. In private Mugabe is such a gentleman.

well what can we say ,,the Mugabe you are talking about is much different from the one portrayed by the Media,, so yah

If you prefer giving me your number that’s ok i just thought since i have Tbos’ and Zulu’s email adds i would have yours too.

I can give you both. I thought since you are in Zimbabwe and in Harare the phone is perfect

Tbos im married to this guy do you think i would still be with him if i was’nt? And no am not married to Mugabe. Why dont you put your pictures on facebook?

Robin just give the lady the adress and number already geez maan you take your time neh,,,lol

Too gentlemanly if you ask me,,,,,RC

tick tock,,am about to go now,,,,,,

Ok my number is +263 733 054 335 Call after 6 coz my battery is flat

yessy

Give me both then then RC.

lol,,and the e-mail,,

I guess now Stacy you have to call him hey,,,, there go on,

Wow T Bos what can I say

yoiwi Im BOREDD AND ITS FRIDAY

no no Robin,,, I think too gentlemanly means too slow means less action means nah no dont be too gentlemaly be medium rare

how am I suppose to call this number,,,,,you know guys ERon is also from Zim

Ok guys the email is robbocop01@yahoo.com

After 6 its a non starter i will call you during the day. What about ur email and Tbos are you now playing match maker?

hey m bck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

its T Bos gone already?

Stacy so call tomorrow during the day

robbocop,,,,Robin,, lets start again how old are you?????

No BB but anm about to eish,,,,

T Bos, what’s up with that? I am 29 years

wat a number RC,,,,,,,

which number ,,BB ,,RC the thing is the robbocop,,,are you a fan ,,and pls do not get offended ..maan be strong!!! am just kiiiiddiing,CIAO

Helow hellow hellow

BB is anything wrong with the number?

Can we blog on Nozuko’s side please

Whats up with the robocop1?

RC I am very proud of you blogging till this time

I am going to Busy Corner at 4

T Bos. Robbocop ws my nickname when I was still in school

Robocop

Ok what a nickname

Yes Dee. Please dont change my guys. You can still call me Robin Chicco as before

pls T Bos pls babes pls love pls sthandwa pls hony i beg u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stacy, there might be many Robbocops out there but i am the first one

Tbos are you still here?

i cudnt stop laughing Dee Robocop shoo!!

the 1st one thatha RC thata!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BB why were you laughing?

Hey bloggers, its been a long tym. Im no longer at Varsity, dats y i have been so quite. I got ma Degree unfortunately im unemployed

miss ya guys. Tbos, BB, d

Congrats Phindi

Who is d phindi

Amhlope Phindi. You will get work soon

Zesa is finally back after 3 days we were using generator.

Zesa is finally back after 3 days we were using generator. Can we know everybodies age now that we RC’s!

We can start with yours Stacy.I am told there is no ZESA in my hood!

Am i now tauring on my own anybody home?

Ndiripo wani nhai Stacy

Kwese sha hakuna Zesa. Im turning 29 in September. Dee how old are you?

Guys enjoy your weekend. Don’t do what I wouldn’t do and take care of your loved ones

I am out of here

Later my good people. Be blessed

Ok everyone have a nice weekend i think im all alone now i cant taura by myself.

Morning guyz

am here BB

are u there guyz?

Morning ppl

gugu how are u?

Im here Thulie but just come and go hey is monday hee

Hi Thulie and gugu how are you ladies

Im gud gal and hw was ur weekend and ur little Sinqobile?

morning ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey sister Dee how was ur weekend?

Morning BB

cool Dee and u?

Thulie, Gugu, BB, Dee morning good people

wen was the awards Dee?

Dumela RC and how are you

BB saturday night and Dini and Kenny wom the best actor and actress awards

Oh, thanks Dee. I am doing fine this Monday morning.

Morning everyone how was your weekend?

Lets have a new post please

Are we ever going to have new post anytime soon

Kenny deserve it really!!

Did not watch gens on friday what happened?

Morning all i was left alone that side, true BB Kenny derserve it but our sophie has good actors

What happened to Kenny?

Is JB after work at Ruby’s or he is after Ruby herself? It looks like we going to have a fight between Kenny and JB over Ruby. Sbuda will like that.

heared dat he got a best actor award

i think JB is after Ruby.

Stacy how are you today?

Oh yes i thought he deserved that too.

Whats the criteria for best actor/ress?

Am fine RC. How are you?

Am good Stacy. Work, work, work on a Monday. And you

Basically i think the criteria is based on how one shows emotion.

But truly speaking Dineo Mashaba is not the best actress especially when compared with people like MaAgnes of Isidingo

Dee is there somewhere we can read about the awards? We want to be well informed when we comment about the awards

Its a lazy Monday am just going through comments on chakafukidza dzimba matenga on facebook people are crazy you know.

Ha ha ha ha ha. That one. Which group is that Stacy? Did you see my email today?

watsup guyz!!!!!!!!

But bloggers really this is chasing our supporters same topic every day

BB nothing is up everything s down

Morning BB!!

Samubona Siya

I am out till next week I cannot blog like this

Where is T bos and Ron in all this? But Dee i thought you once volunteered to post updates here? Please don’t go

Am out too. Later good people

Ok, am gone for sho.

I was just helping out for posting the updates RC

I am also gone RC

m sorry guyz m here

exactly Tshepi Paul deserve beta dan dat

guyz no update today why?

Anyboby home?

Whats happening to people today?

LUNCH L8A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But RC if yu guyz founders of dis blog lving us lyk dis, wht r we suppse 2 do now as new members?

yu guyz must bare with other members its monday and wrk, wrk,wrk and last week of da mnth sum of us r extremly busy

Dee Dee Dee we dont expect dis 4rm yu cum back pls

Gugu, am always here waiting for people

RC ,am here now tell me did yu watch gen on friday RC?

Finally

Finally. Did’nt anyone watch gens on Friday Ron? Tbos? Where is today’s post?

Gugu I missed Gens on Friday. Power cuts!

am also here guyz whats up?

Guess we have to taura tomorrow then im out of here.

It looks like today we are sheep without a shepherd.

sorry guyz i had to go help sum1 abt sumting am here now

heheheheh Robin where is the shpherd?

Thulie, there is no post to guide us as we chat and blog since Friday. What do you call that?

ok it seems lyk we all didnt watch on friday, RC wht up kanti 2day?

Gugu am also wondering. Since morning things have not been the same here.

then be our shpherd RC i think yu ll be da good one hey thulie

RC , thulie did mam Ruby offerd JB a job as a waitress?

Yes Gugu but I need to have watched Gens on Friday to be a good shepherd in this case

Oh Gugu and RC you are here?

Maybe we all need to know how to post updates so that we don’t act clueness when those who always hold fort are not around like what has happened today.

But it will also mean watching Gens with pen and paper in hand like a journalist of some sort!!!

That’s a good idea RC I post updates as soon as 7am

Yes Stacy am around. I was busy in the morning but its better now

RC hw is u bbs?

wat r u on abt guyz?

We are on about anything BB since we dont have an update.

Hi guys i’m new here i hope u’ll welcome me

Zims u al alone,,,,,,ag nee maan maar y m here

BB whats up? Where have you been?

Stacy,RC sorry guyz to let yu do dis alone i was finshng sumting. lets hope it wil be btter 2moro hi Roro and welcome to da family and i have to go now ppl will do bttr 2moro mncwaaaaaaaaaaaa

welcome home Roro m BB hw old r

This is boring maybe tomorrow it will be fun bye.

byeee everyone lv u all mcwaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Woh, Roro don’t dispair. You just came at the wrong time.

People have gone home. Mina sengihamba

Guys give us some seriousness tomorrow. We need a post early in the morning which can guide our chatting. Outa here

Hahahahahahahahahahahkikikikikihuuuuhaaa!!!!!!!!!!

Morning guys, RC pls do as you promised ystady, da post!

RC i thought yu ll be here by now.

Ron, kindly hv a new post 2day pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeas

I will come back when sumthing new comes up!

Dee please help out 2day to hv new post pleeeeeeeeease

morning guyz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey Gugu
nami will come back when there is new post….

hey gugz m gona grab a cup of coffee,,,,,,,wl b bck!!

Gugu, Thulie and BB how are you this morning?

Morning Thulie and BB, nothing yet ill cum and check again after a while

We really need a new post today.

not 2 good baby Stacy and hows yu?

niya toyi toya na?

Stacy m cool bbs n u!

What is the problem Gugu?

BB what does that mean @8.03?

Come on gugu what is it?

so wil we hv the new post vele Ron?

I will come back when there is a new post seems im tauring by myself.

Do we have a new post now?

stacy im talking about the new post baby gal things r not good hey i agree with BB @ 8:03am lets do it toyi toyi!!

Thulie,Stacy and BB is anything we can do ladies to put the new post????

i give up

bye ppl

wats happening nw guyz is the strike ova nw?

Morning all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Which side guyz!!!

Morning guyz i’m here BB i’m 30 something maan. I was busy this morning. Ndikhona asoze ndilahleke. Chawuuuuh