Good morning everyone. I hope I find you well. I apologise for not putting a post up yesterday. Please forgive me.

Morning bloggers!!!

Hi Gens,,,,,,and you are 4given Ron

HERE IS THE NEW POST NOW COOOOOOOOoooooME HERE

Ron I think these women don’t report the abuse because they are abusive themselves,, I’m not going to dwell much on this subject today

Thanx God new post…..morning every one….khetiwe must start dateting ace…

hello Thulz,,mlam wam how are you,,,, and Stacy here are the new postsssssssss pls chom

morning ditsala how a u

mina if this goes on,,Im going,,,NOWWWWW SOMAAR

oh how delightful eish I have to brb soon

Maqz,,how are you friend??

Ya, Ron you should apologise. People were very angry yesterday and we felt abandoned and neglected

I am fine thanx Sbali, hey Dee…..i wnt to know where do u report verbal abuse mst it be physical only dat u report?

T & Thulz how a u guyz

Stacy, gugu, BB come this side….

Hie Tbos, Thulie, Mexi and RC.

im gud T and hope u al gud………….

RC, Stacy halooooooooooooooo

Stacy good morning

where is RC ,,,,,and Stacy I know this topic hits home with you ,,how are you guys,,at home,,eish

Mexican how are you today? You were not around yesterday?

guyz who watched di SAFTA………on saturday

shoo Stacy you and RC amaze me,, where did you two come from,, I bet you were together,,how come you say hello to him and he comes in,,. ,,new gens couple??? huh

T Bos am around. Where were you yesterday?

SAFTA????

I was a lil busy joe,,but am here today if only for a while

RC i was too busy………….

T Bos Stacy is my sister.

brb

I am going to be busy today Mexican

T dont tel me u dont know South African Film & Television Awards

RC im so busy nowadays myfriend……………eish

I really fealt for Khetie.

Whats keeping you busy Mexican?

Khetie brings in Gogo, Dumi continues to abuse her and Gogo will say I told you this man is no good for you. Khaps will be vindicated

Domestic Violence Act. Don’t you guys have something like this in SA?

molweni guyz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!thnx Ron

Its not good for someone to have 3 successive comments. It shows you are talking to yourself. I have done that today!!!

khethi listens to wrong ppl for advices……..and i dont know why cant she beat dumisani

MexicanB!!!!!!!Dumi i think a lot of guyz wen they lv sum1 they cant wait 2 b introduced 2 her family bt not Dumi u can ask urself y not

yahhh its paining RC ,,,,,,,,,,,,,i know the pain ask T he knows the pain toooo

BB hi!!!!!! dumi dont love khethi at all he is just a jack i even think Ace is better than him

Mexican! You cant fight fire with fire

network is acting up….hey mexi, stacy and Robin

eish what can i say RC……………i hate dumi eish……….and even if khethi is down he cant even notice

To me. Dumisani and Ace are just sides of the same coin-both have violent mentalities.

Mexi ppl can gv u advice but u r the one hu mst take a decision

Thulie whats up?

Thulz u so 2009 that excuse ended last year /;;;;;;;;;;lollest

dats the problm abt us ladies ppl hu lv us we dnt care abt them we want those hu abuse or hu dnt care abt us

what can we say ……..they say love is blind…………

but its difficult to differenciate BB as somebody will be so loving from the begining and after he changes to a monster

Mexi this network z jealous today i am in a moody 2 chat bt its soo acting up…wht do i do…

Thulie mine is acting up too.

Thulz im not in a mood 2day……..i just fil like sliping

Anyboby with a violent mentality can be violent to anyboby, anywhere.

Mex last year u were also lazy girl…i think its time u change….stop this sleeping feeling….eish Stacy we sinking on the same bought joe….guyz i asked a question no one answered…is it a physical abuse that u can report or u can also report the verbal abuse?

This topic really gets to my nerves.

Thulie it all depends on the laws of your country. Here in Zimbabwe we have the Domestic violence Act which criminalise verbal and physical abuse. If convicted even of verbal abuse which is also related to emotional abuse you go to jail.

Shooo Robin wish was in Zim…was gonner sue someone….where is zim are u? gt a friend of min 4rm bulawayo…..sorry stacy girl…so wht can we talk abt?

Thulie am in Harare

Even verbal abuse can affect you in the same way darling Thulz so it has to be treated the same.

I hate people who abuse girls and women.

Hi everyone!!!

i hv jst gvn a lot of wrk dnt thnk wl b able 2 wrk,,,,,,but wl cum n check u guyz,,,,l8a!!!

Lets taura about Pauly i looking at him last night when he was speaking and damn those lips are just something out of this world.

Oh ok Robin….

lol,,,,,@ RC — well you are my brother mos Robin..!!!! @8;56

I dislike women that abuse men and children

Sometimes verbal is more painful that physical

hahaha Stacy do u wanna fight with mexican? she will kill you for Paul

How can a man bbe abused T Bos??

T Bos don’t sound like a sexist my bro.

Exacle Chicco i feel like verbal is more painful than physcal….couse alwayz going on ur mind….

Stacy, what about those lips? Paulie is a model of a gentleman. He knows how to treat women!

Gugu where have you gone to im concerned.

havent you guys felt abused at any point then wait its coming definitely,,where is,,,T

Tuks,,,,yah Tuks

Im about to taura out of here guys,,

I agree with you T Bos verbal abuse is very painful bra!!

Tbos what did you mean i was with RC?

Eish women shouting and swearing eish that make me eish…………..

Siya while verbal is worse that physical that doesn’t make the other the better. They are both devils in their own ways

lol Siya what abt the men who also do that?

Hi everyone I wish uKhethiwe ayeke laDumisani amshiye yedwa pha. He is a cow really

hey Roro how are u? welcome to the family

Heita Roro,,,,my grandma used to call me Roro when I was little,, I cant believe Dee’s message on FB,,ijerrrr

RORO I think Dumisane is a bull

Roro we are from the other side of Mzansi. COMMUNICATION

Bt why Kheti is allowing it…i think she mst go to makhumalo to teach her how to treat indoda enganangqondo….

sorry Chico abt the language…bt will interpret for u.. Roro was saying Khethiwe mst leave that Dumisani…..

Hi Roro,,,,what about a man trying to get it on his GF or wife then she says NO ,,what apainful thing eish……..

buh bye for today gens,,, 2morrow Ok Keep well!!!!!

Guys you are saying verbal is worse than physical how so? If someone gets a scar or crippled then how do you compare the two?

Why you leave me alone T Bos bra????

The degrees will vary but at the same level or degrees we are saying verbal is torturing.

hahaha Siya is that also abuse at 10:47?

That is man abuse Thulie,,,to Stacy something you have told by someone you will never forget for the rest of your life especialy if it si true….

At this time of day where are you off to Tbos?

Thulie that can be abuse coz its denial of conjugal rights if they are officially married. But it all depends on circumstances. For instance if the wife/gf thinks the man is having an extra marital affair and wants to do it without using a condom that can not be abuse. Abuse comes in this scenario if the man forces himself on her-marital rape

I’ happy there is someone on my side thanx RC…

never thought of that as an abuse….

sorry I am here for two seconds,, Imagine Thulie,,, somebody saying something bad about you or to you,,, The pain never goes away,,,, Sticks & stones,,,,,but words do more harm

They say Dumi is hornless what is Khethi want from him anyway???????

Women abuse men EMOTIONALLY and the sad thing is they dont realise it or even know that it is abuse ,,, then the guy hits her and she cries abuse ,,but she starts it!

I’m fine Thulie thanks i’m just reading yo comments guyz. I think Dumisani doesn’t care about communication his doing things on his own way….Bull Haahaaa

Sho T Bos i’m with you,,,,,, where are the ladies??

sorry!!! Siya about Dumi I didnt get that

according to SA statistics lst yr 71% of woman got abused by men physically!

yes TBos agree with u, verbal abuse its worse when it comes to you but u dont notice when u do it to someone else. heeeeeeeee Siya where du u get that info abt Dumi?

How can you call a man a dog ladies???

Roro are you a lady help us out here

so we woman are the victim of abuse

yah they call us dogs,,and we suppose to enjoy,,,that huh???

Siya, we think alike!

Dont you know that guys,,,do you tell me no one knows that cmon guyz…..

gugu,, men are sheep most of the times,,but they get emotionally abused by their partners and even relatives,, expecting money and things the poor guy cant give and when he cant deliver ,,he is called DOG.. and now with the prevention pills,, women are using those like its some sort of steroid and it kills the mans labido,, but who is listening ,,woman just want to prevent and dont wanna hear that its busy killing the man also,,UBUDODA

Once she col me a dog i grab her immediately and sort her out and demond an apology after all,,,,,like Dumi

What about a scar it will there for life as well Siya.

I think the reason why Dumi beatsKhethi is because ,,Khethi is using those prevention pills now the poor man cant get it up!

dnt agree TBoss the only time a woman say something bad to a man its when leads by his actions….its u guyz dat start doing wrong thing and then we end up calling u dogz….lol….like 4 example if the father of the babe not supporting u tell the babe that ur dad is a dog couse u angry that u supporting alone…lol

a scar Stacy we can get plastic surgery for it but theres no surgery for words that Hurt Stace none and words cant really be taken back

men are sheep oh please Tbos maybe 3 out of 50 are sheep!!!!

lol Tboss @ 11:22

but Thulie,,,, by telling the child that his father is a DOG what image are you giving to the poor kid,, he will also grow up knowing fathers as Dogs,, and all because the woman couldnt sit the father down and talk to him,,, Pride I tell you

So T Bos you finally agree with me he cant get it up….

not even 3 out of 50 gugu…0.5 out of 100….mna wht else i’ve notice abt men they real lost the value shame…couse they gossip, liars, etc cant even explain it….i think they are boyz maan…

no gugu 49 out of 50 men are innocent and provoked by their partners in some ways.. like going shopping for shoes,, the woman expects the man to hang in therer while she cant make up her mind about SHOES and if I say no i dont wanna do this ,,she stars saying things, like —yah you dont have time for me ,, you dont love me which leads to being called a dog eventually

women ABUSE us a lot more ,,than they think and the sad part is that SA defends them ,,tooo much so they get away with it,,,Why do you guys think so many men end up killing their spouses,,,, Its because the heart and mind couldnt take it any more!!!

That is both children and men abuse by telling a child that his or her father is a dog …

Siya if you say he cant get it up ,,,then I have nothing to say but hear your side ,,,and I think the reason is the one I wrote earlier @ 11;22

Its getting really hot!

TBos wht am trying to say z its u who start abuse then we respond thats why end up calling u DOGZ…when not doing ur responsibility u abusing me moss…jst imagen not supporting ur child but u own a blackberry, wearing nike ye R1000, how u expect me to feel?

Ok good morning bloggers

Imagine that Bra! your woman calling you a Dog,,,,,I mean what does that make her,,,, a bitch*** huih,,,Name calling

hello Dee

Ok ok ok can I say something

Hi Tbos

Mara Tboss a dog is a dog I cannot call a dog Prince

Why are you dissapearing this is abuse

I expect you Thulie to tell me that ,,,honey we ( you and I) are going to sell all this stuff for our baby’s sake,, sit down and talk,,, COMMUNICATION will bring us together,, dont just keep quiet and expect a man to read your mind we have no time to do that

ma point exactle Dee a dog will alwayz be a dog…or mst will call it a pig?

men are simple,, very simple,, if I were a woman ,,no man would run away from me,,,,, ever!!!

If you can take alook in jails there is lot of guys that are innocent by being accused by rape ,,,maybe the mother dont like a guy because he is not working he is not providing bringing money,,,,so she must lie….

and Dee a bitch is a bitch I cant call a bitch a Queen

how can all these Princesses,, sleep with DOGS,,, huh???? tell me tuu

Tbos not everyone of us can afford plastic surgery.

as if they listen TBoss…comeon why do u wait for me to talk to u while u know ur responsibility….that means u acting exactle like a dog…

Stacy lets talk about Paulie!!

excactly Siya ,, thease days they are worse these woman,,, you touch her she goes and gets a restraining oder against you,,, how evil

Tboss abuse is abuse and it is there to both man and woman and I still say if you see any signs of abuse RUN LIKE HELL AND DO NOT LOOK BACK

lol Tboss u sleep with a Dog because u dont know that its a dog…its covering itselft by gold paper….

I don’t mind a retraining order I hate the jail term for touching someone it makes a person very angry and when he comes out all hell will break loose

Stacy you are missing my point,,, I am not saying women should be battered I am merely saying that men are victims of abuse also,,,,,, by the very ppl that say they are abused look now ,,Dee and Thulie are calling us DOGS and PIGS ,,how do you think that feels

lol Robin also dnt like the topic…hahhhahaha

I am talking about DOGS it can either be a male or female dog

I think the evil one is busy destroying families and using the weaker sex again,,,, eish lets not let him win pls

Tboss i will say it again i agree we both abusing each other but men are the ones starting with their action abuse..and we as women do verbal abuse..

But to be honest people who are in abusive relationship always try to hide it and pretend as though everything is ok

so how do we overcome it TBoss?

Thanx Dee for clarifying that,,,, we can stop it but its the heading for todays,,Post RC and Stacy,,,,,,,

I once abuse a man I admit

a stripper ,,joooooooooooo eish ,,lol then do it

I had a eason to do that

Facebook and Genblog don’t mix

its this stupit thing we call love Dee…we as women alwayz have that thing in mind dat someone is gonner change….bt believe me a dog will alwayz be a dog.

Do you want to hear my story and be the judge

yah Dee thats the problem,,, hiding it,,,,, ppl should talk about things,, and issues,, some ppl do not think they are being abusive ,,whether by actions or by talking so saying it would be ,,cool

Even woman do not change Thulie sometimes a childwood background counts

agg sorry Dee the problem is when my messages come through I can see them here so I just lol..and responded

Not only verbal abuse thulie go around and see our fathers how are they beaten and stabed in the sheebens for only dont want to buy alchohol,,,,INGUDU ZIYABAGQIBA OTATA BETHU EZIMOKOLWENI….

child hood backround is the worst,, coz it haunts a person and ,, most of our ppl BLack are too ignorant to therapy and counseling …so they get abusive unaware

Dee pls tell me your side of the story but I dont wanna judge coz I have my own baggage ,,just want to relate thats all!!!

being in a sheebben whilst kids are starving is not cool,, let them get the beating botata benu there I dont agree with irresponsibility,,no

Tbos my brother man are DOGS period

and now Im alone,,, damn

BITCH!!

maybe dog stands for man and bitch stands for woman,, but I am not a DOG

What would you do to or for a man not to run away from you Tbos?

Yeah Tbos talking helps a lot even if you do not talk to a friend you can always talk on Facebook on Genblog on Cybershrink and there you will be talking to people who do not know you and who will not judge you

I’m still here bra!

Stacy I would clm him down ,,,,make him his favorite drink then tell him,, Baby,, (this I do whilst I spoil him with an occasional,, kiss) I love you ,,but when you beat me up,,, It hurts me truly and I wanna spend the rest of my life with you,,,, really and theres no man Id rather be with than you,,, so when I have done something wrong just tell me and we can fix it together I know we can,,, and honey I really am sorry for what I have done to do you wrong,, Ok,, then stroke his,,, you know what),,,yum

Brb

It’s a very topical issue Thulie. I like it actually…

im out for lunch! Tbos and Siya pls stop being a DOGS

yep!!! and other people problems end up making your 1 a very petty one,,,, because other ppl have bigger challenges than others

gugu stop abusing us with that word,,, pls its not cool sister

Sho T Bos tell them not shouting and say no everytime i try to get it just give it….

Man and women can never agree on who is and who is not a dog between them so we are not going anyway except cursing each other.

HERE IS MY STORY OF ME ABUSING A MAN :

I met him and he was sharing a flat at Hillbrow with a friend and then he was driving a nice BMW that time I was still renting a house in Bramley and suddenly he came up with excuses and he moved in with me I did not plan this it happened while I did not even notice then after a while he did not help me to pay my rent R3000 and he did not even buy food that time I did not have a car of my own and he will ask money for petrol if he takes me to shopping.
Then I got sick and tired of this and I started by not giving him food my food .
I once told him to sleep on the floor because he came home late my home.
I made him do his washing with my washing machine then one night he was complaining about all this treatment that I am giving him and he said he doesn’t like it and I told him to move out if he doesnt which he didn’t want to I called the police immediately and they came and throw him out of my house and I got the protection order and throw his clothes on the street

haha Tboss when u try to talk to a man …he will never ever listen….jst imagen i ask u y did u cut ma calls last nite when was calling u? response it was a network…that pisses me off couse i know u lying

A DOG IS SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT HAVE RESPECT FOR ANYBODY

Thulie I think it’s better to lie than to say HEY I WAS BUSY HAVING S>EX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN

Gugu plz dont start veb abuse…

Thulie approach counts and timing also

gugu we are not going to promote verbal abuse sisi let us be better than them

Thnak you Tbos for the first time I agree with you @ 12:07

eish Dee but dont think the guy abused u…jst think he was trying to win lotto…

Dee I think your situation here was a bit justifiable,, because the guy was now making you feel like he is using you,, he didnt even explain why he isnt helping

what approach TBoss…when i ask why did’nt take ma calls?

well Siya you cant always expect to get it,, coz am sure you dont want to get it,,all the time

already Dee you can see that we behaved better,, coz Gugu is swearing at us and we politely asked her to stop,,which proves something!!!!!

but most of the guyz are like that …for example how many guyz that marry unemployed women? now the first thing the guy is asking when he meet u, where do u work….

Thulie 12;12 pls,,am lost

Thulie that is caused by the fact that some women earn more than men and we all know that women can be very demanding so magents these days are going the 50/50 route,,,which for me is a boring route coz we are just going to compare salaries without caring for each other ,,eish Satanic jong

Dee i prefer the truth ma sister if there is one thing i hate its someone lying ….truth for me it does’nt matter how much it will hurt…couse when u lie i think u think am a fool

But Tbos what you are made to apologise foe something you know is not like wrong like what Dumi does to Kheti she apologises for his mistakes?

I think we are all possessed ,,waitsi,,, geeeeez,,,I maen we fight over petty little things we argue fuss and fight we all want to earn more we all want big cars and expensive houses so that our peers can respect us,, sis man the thought of all this makes me sick!!!

are you guys on lunch?????

But Thulie you know I liked this gys one day ,,he said,, when a person starts to lie,,, they first have to lie to themselves,, and convince themselves of the lie first b4 they can lie to you,, so me if a person lies I leave them let them go on,, the lie will get him one day

Khethiwe shouldn’t apologize ,,she should tell him that you are beating me and I dont know why,, and I do not enjoy it,,,

T Bos. You are becoming a love Doctor!!!

OK GUYZ TELL ME ABT THIS HOW WOULD U FEEL IF THE FATHER OF UR CHILD COME TO U AND ASK FOR A CHILD U GIVE HIM THE CHILD, U CALL TO FIND OUT HOW IS THE CHILD NOT PICKING UP PHONE, APPARENTLY HE TOOK UR CHILD TO HIS GF PLACE. CALL HIM AGAIN ASKING WHEN HE IS GOING TO BRING BCK THE CHILD JST SAY WILL BRING THE CHILD BACK AND CUTTING THE CALL. AND HE BRINGS THE CHILD BCK AT 21:30 WITH A SLEEVELESS DRESS..TODAYZ LATER HE IS WRITING ON HIS STATUS ON FACE BOOK ABT U BEING THE BAD MOTHER, HIS BROTHER COMMENT AND CALL U A BAD MOTHER AND HIS GF ALSO COMMENT….IS THAT NOT A DOG TBOSS?

hahahaha RC why???

nice one TBoss at 12:20

Thats an irrespective ,irresponsible father not a dog,, Thulie we have no excuse for sin sister ,,now yuou want me to preach,,do not go to hell for his faults,,,

Then lets talk about something else.

brb in an hour guys,,,,

preach tboss…but i think the name that suits him …he is a pig…or a boy…etc…

anyway guyz lets not talk abt this couse it makes me to feel like i can kill someone

guys guys guys marumo fase gretngs i feel emotions com down thulz u ar de best mom eva u care about ur daughter ths y u were worried & keep coling him and he is a fool.back 2 gen chief Khumalo think he is wht God cause we olwais sai forgive us as we forgive dos who sin against us & he cant forgive his onli son 4 crying in de backet who dos he think he is,as 4 JB he got momRuby were he wnt her control frik

Is there anyone not going to lunch?

Thulie your child’s father is irresponsible especially by bringing the chil so late I mean hellow and get over your anger and talk to him about this type of things that bothers you and as for Facebook remove him from your friends list you don’t need this cheap life you and your child deserves better

I agree sometimes men behave worse than dogs. I am a man!

If talking helps go for it girlfriend TALK TALK AND TALK TILL YOU FEEL BETTER

Eish Dee this thing iyangihlanyisa everytime when am thinking abt it…dnt worry have a very good solution for him…he is out of ma child’s life for good…

will never ever listen to anyone that says i mst give him another chance….he is a dog….with his brother and his girlfriend…

Even woman too there’s one woman that I know who likes party’s she is a single mom to a 5year old she locks the child alone in the house and go party

and guess what guyz…his uncle even called me telling me that what type of a mother i am that let a guy to bring a child a nite….what i was suppose to do….its jst that i dont wanna involve ma family in this but was going to call ma dad to sort them out….

Thulie do not take him out of your child’s life rather make it this way if he wants to see the child make it your terms sweety at the end of the day he is the childs father and it will never change

How old is the child Thulie

hahah Dee does this woman dnt have relatives? because instead of locking ur child up its better to give the child to one of ur sisters…

She just don’t care Thulz and she is a very beautiful educated young lady

eish Dee at the moment am agry dnt want him next to ma child…the child is 4mth now almost 5…this person wanted me to give him the child while she was still younger and he accused me of not alloweing him to be part of his childs life because i did’nt give him the child…now that i gave him the child what have i gain….

So the bottom line is Khethi should leave dumi and if she really cares about him she should advice him to get some help

do u think Dumi will ever agree to get help…remember he did’nt listen to the sangoma do u think he will listen to Khethi no wayz….where are others?

Damn

Kids! I can one be calous to a kid when s/he is a mother/father?

Thuie its not your child,,alone its BOTH your child,,he has to take better care of the child,,, eish ,,I hate it when children are dragged between our issues

for the 1st time Dee was without words,,,nice

wht do u mean TBoss @ 1:05.. i gave him many chances to prove himselve bt alwayz get dissapointed….what am i suppose to do….no wayz i hate that dog with ma heart….

But Thulie your child does not hate that dog and that dog is still your child’s father and your child will one day hate you for calling her dad a dog

eish,,,,,Thulie,,the reason you HATE him is because you actually love him so much its painful,,I understand that but what he did on FB you are doing on Gensblog,, both of you are lashing at each other but not talking TO each other,,,,,,pls dobnt hate him and dont call him names,, be blameless at all times or atleast try,,, you sound veeeeery angry,,,,,,

TJO TJO TJO Dee for the first time again ,,youve made me proud,, you sound soo responsible,,and its true,,your own child will hate you Thulie,,, Anger isnt good it makes you say and do things,, joe

When parents fight its always the children who suffer. Sometimes its psychologically damaging such that it affects them in future and even in their marriages

Thulie send him an email if he’s got one tell him how you feel please do not use dog words

Thulie shouldnt send him any message now,, she is too pissed off right now,,what do your parents,,,say about all this

I did Dee and shame because i was angry sent him a very hot email…Tboss i dnt love him joe…

Tbos I have been there done that

it was 2pages…lol but now i feel guilt with some of the thingz i sad…

these two ,,,,love each other,,,and its unfair for the child to be dragged between them,,le lwadisa ngwana man

Thulie sorry but you have feelings for him otherwise he wouldnt hurt you,,,,so

Thulie I have sent you an email please read it

aaaaaaa Thulie wena you dont listen ever,,and ppl that dont take advice sometimes fall in a trap,,,,we are more grown up than you thulz we know what we are talking about ,,,,you should be slow to act but quick to listen,,,,,eish am so frustrated now

But you too should stop this network war it won’t help both of you including the child

I also want the e-mail,,la bona bjanong,,, aggggg

hahahahah yah Dee you are right ,,

I think its about who is willing to be the wiser,,,,, the wiser one is going to just keep quiet as if,,,,,, its tough i know but worth it

Thulie be like me babes use him and allow him to use you as well. I know what I am talking about leave anger aside do ur duties as a woman and make him pay

keng? la ja?

am sorry TBoss but i think u are the person that mst understand ma stuation couse i sent u the message that were talking abt me…sorry that i dissapointed u bt i think i wont do it again i dnt know what can he say and i dnt care.

ge ge ge geng! wa thoma Dee bjanong ne ke maketse…lol

have replied Dee

Tbos yeah me and you on the same page

Oh, its lunch time. Check you out after lunch good people

good advice Dee…@ 1:28

Thulie now you are being stubborn,,blinded by anger and the only person that will make sense to you is the one who says ,, thuga le nja o yi bophise,, others that say keep the peace ,,at this moment sound like they dont know what they are talking about and believe me THEY DO!!!

wa bona,, I knew it just coz Dee said use him,, that sounded Ok, but its not really ,,well its your choice and you will have to live with it not us!!!

but then again Dee use him in what way????

Tbos it’s true if we use one another we end up being friends for the child’s sake

pay what MAINTANANCE,, he mus do it anyways,,I dont get that,,use him howwwwwwww???

use in what way,,Sexual,, financial or be friends howwwwwwwwwwwwww

ijerrrrrrrrrr yeses man,

I am having green tea for lunch—Interesting hey!!

I said use him and allow him to use you vice versa

Tbos i took all the advices Sbali, as i said now i feel guilt with some of the thingz i said on the email…but i will apologies once ma anger is gone.

Guyz thanx for everything i feel much better now….byeeeeeeeee love u all

Ask him money even if you know you don’t need it and pay it back at the end of the month.
Call him maybe on friday assk him to come with you to the child’s crech just to collect the baby.
Ask him for assistance with phoning someone who is bothering you and you are scared of that person then tip that person to expect a call from your ex.
He will feel like he is protecting the mother of her child he will feel like he’s the real man.
But if he ask you to borrow him R100 say eish sweety I only have R50 with me and give him and month end do not ask it back keep quiet and see if he will return it ad if he doesn’t don’t ask it back but 15 days later borrow R200 from him. THIS MIGHT BUILT A GOOD CARING RELATIONSHIP

but Dee thats lying and it takes a lot of effort to lie,,, because you have to plan the lie and use other innocent people to do your dirty work,, how can you do that ,,mara ??? and we are DOGS ? geeez

hahahahahaha pathological liar,,,hahahahah you never cease to amaze me,, shem I feel sorry for the poor brother,,,,,why dont you just say I love you and start from there????

hahahahah Dee so your world is a mengelmus,,, it sounds twisted USE him NA LET HIM use YOU HAHAHAHAHAHA eish I cant stop laughing

lolest ,,eish Dee

DEE DEE DEE DEE DEE DEE DEE DEE DEE!!!!!!!!!

hahahahahahahah hey RC

Yeah Yeah Yeah RC Tbos we are tryng to build a relationship here

look at the time…eish

I wonder if Thulie has read my comment about building a relationship

hahahahahah you are too desperate jong le ka maka tota ,,hahahaha tjooo eish wa mpolaya lol

poor child,, you are taking out the mzalwane in that kid Dee

brb!!!

Don’t go Tbos tu

Who is mzalwane

By the way I will be sick tomorrow

Thulie Dee

hahahahahahahahaha juuuuuuuuuuuuuu Dee

jooojojoo Dee

Such a mature response 1:44

wa te curse Dee dont say that pls ,,and when are you accepting Jesus as Lord and savior Dee..nke o ikhutse maaka

huhuhhahahahah RC I cant believe ,,you agree with these blatant lies of Dee’s funny ppl all you lot ..brb

My network was acting up the whole of lunch time and am too lazy to read all your comments what are you guys talikng about?

and Dee’s 1;44 sounds more like a trick than anything,,,,, where would his girlfriend be at the time you two are exchanging R50 rands and R200 rands Sweety???

about lying Stacy

T Bos thats the idea

Stacy welcome back

Dee i will try it @ 1:44pm

Rc its easier to 4get lies ,,you lie about this today and tomorrow you 4got what you said the day b4 isnt that a lot of work???

and its easier to follow bad advice than good meaningful one,,,

Tbos the sooner we stop worrying about the girlfriends blah blah blha the better concentrate on building a good relationship with your ex since your ex is not your enemy and this is an innocent lie it does not kill anyone

If you lie Tbos lie wisely what is wrong in asking your ex who is your child’s father to borrow you 1 klipa

Afternoon gud people

try it fast gugu it works this is what we call building a good relationship just like your mother in law make her feel like she’s your own mother ask her if she does not have a red handbag that you could borrow even if you have it.
Ask her for a black doek even if it’s ugly tell her how beautiful it looks

You perfect the art of lying T Bos

This is the art of lying

Lying to who? Im not good at lying.

Life can teach you things

Oh guys this topic is very interesting bcoz I was the victim of abuse.

guys ar u there ! ur confusin me i don’t no about u Thulie take it from me my mom did evri thing 4 me & did tel me to hate de punk or sai aniting ugly about him but as a child i figur it myslf dat de fada was a punk & foolish runing away 4rom respnsbilty shifting de blam caus he dont hav balls , nu i hate hom 4 dat .Thulie ur job is to take a very gud care of ur angel do not play stupid lik him, do not comunicate wit him just take care of ur baby and if she wnt 2 no about de father show her de fada do not ply selfish whn she growup she wil realise wh ws dere 4 her & wh ws not let her choose dont deny her dat opotunity pls girl pls , i no ur hrt but think 4 her she has 2 make her own chois whn she grow

Iwish i could do that.

I was raised by a single mom only with an irresponsible father but I will never ever call him a punk and foolish

Do what stacy

Dee now I respect your 2:31 comment ,,I love it,,,,,,Brilliant ,,and with that its adios mochachos from me ,,and Ma God bless your paths,, bah byeeeee

@2.24 i have heard that several times guess its just a matter of time for me Dee.

i did not get enough tym to comment today but i’ve learned a lot from you comments guyz! bye all c 2moro and hv a gud day further.

Lie Dee.

Today was lively, unfortunately I was busy today. This family is very constructive and discuss mature issues. Am growing fast guys. Am only 29 but I have learnt things 50 year olds have failed to do in their lifetime.

Dee are you still here? Can i have your email add please?

Are you married RC?

Hi Stacy please ask Tboss or Thulie my email or what is yours

Stacy are you still here

Stacy why do you ask?

Tomorrow guys.

I did see its almost time for some people to go home. Later my pips

Good morning.

morning Stacy!!!!!

Let me grab a cup of tea brb!!

What does “ke batla kuipithla le wena” mean?

Hie Siya how are you today?

I did not watch Gens yesterday thanks to Zesa’s load shedding. What happened?

Hey Stacy how are u?
i did watch gen but cnt even tell u wht was happening….

Siya are you back?

Hie Thulz. Were you not concentrating?

I’m back guys!!anyway i’m doing fine Stacy……

hey Siya…i was concentrating Stacy but can only remember when sum1 start reminding me.

So what happened yesterday Siya? Thulz cant tell me.

Eish JB is in throuble!!!

Dumi was in in the bar his phose was off battrey flat the Khethi was trying to call but phone was on voice mail and it was late already ,,,,,Dumi seems not even care about that,,,eish i feel for Khethi

Can someone tell me what @ 7.26 means please?

Thulie,Stacy ,Siya and the rest of the family good morning

What has JB done now?

hey gugu….oh thanx Siya now i remember wht happend on gen…..JB apparently is owing someone some cash….

Eish stacy im not gud in sotho Siya please help stacy understand the meaning @ 7:26

also not gud in reading sotho but i think its i want to live with you…something like that…7:26

also not gud in reading sotho but i think its i want to live with you…something like that…7:26

But JB naye he is owing everbody

And he is good at his job uncle JB

Can sum1 tell me what is bothering Sbuda about Zondos family he was not happy about this whole thing

Thanx Thulz someone wrote that on facebook wall so was just curious.

guyz i need a strong black coffee will be back shortly

Has a you post been posted yet?

Let me just grab a cup of roibbos tea as well.

No new post yet

Sorry guys my system was down completely then i have to call my administrator but it is back now ican continue blogging……

Are you guyz still here ???

In anyone here or the is anew post??

Okay

Brb!!

Ron, Tbos can we have a new post pliz

New post plz guyz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let me sleep!!!!!!!!!

RRRRHHHHHHHHUUUUUUURRRRRRHHHHHHUUUUU!!!!!

Dreaming!!!

Winning power ball,,,,,90m

Eish its a dream yesessssss!!!!

Someone come and pinch me plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is a new post guys but I tell you it has nothing to do with what happened on Gens yesterday. T Bos, Ronnie, whats going on guys? Should we give you a vote of no confidence?